The Bridges's Chatter

All in Nine Months Work

2010-08-27T19:58:00.000-07:00

The Bridges are on the countdown to Baby Holt #2's Arrival! It feels like Amanda's pregnancy has flown by. . .crazy thing is she thinks so too! I think it's our life as moms' of two year-olds. Our girls make time tick faster. During the last nine months Livie and Finley have been to Disney World, taken their first round of swim lessons and enrolled in play school. Livie alone has been a flower girl, trained the potty :) and moved into her big girl room. And there are so many other things that have escaped my mind. Oh, Livie has been tubing too! This doesn't include all that Amanda has been up to: Photo shoots, marketing, Chapel stuff, etc. Livie and her are quite the dynamic duo! (We know Jarrod keeps his motor running too--can't leave dad out!)
I'm personally excited about Amanda being so close to delivery because I get a pedicure tomorrow, the first one since we were prepping for Livie! Lots to do in the next ten days. Be on the look out for pics and posts. Aunt C has got lots to do for Baby Holt #2!

Thoughts from the last 48

2010-08-24T17:46:00.001-07:00

I have been pretty much confined to the walls of 140 Cypress Run the past two days. Wow. The coral walls get to you fast, thank goodness they're not yellow. Finley is experiencing her first-ever ear infection. Bless her heart, she's pitiful. We've been up together for a couple of hours during the night. She'll sleep with me on the sofa for about an hour and then my busty-self is just too much cushion for her(ha, ha). Another thank goodness that she loves her bed.
Her infection has sparked my enthusiasm for meticulous hygiene and the need to up-the-anty as cold and flu season approach. Jarrett is tired of me asking him to wash his hands and I'm sure Jack and Fergie do not appreciate me shooing Finley from them (you know cats and dogs harbor strep and there is much more to strep infections than the throat--just an FYI).
I'm starting to work on the gal's BDay plans too. Nothing big this year, but still a theme, probably Dora the Explorer. After all of the Dora we've watched since Finley's been sick I should be able to recreate Dora's likeness as a cake in "Cake Boss" fashion. We'll see. Of course I've already recruited Mom and Whit (my two little Marthas) for help.

Toddlerhood Has Hit Cypress Run

2010-08-16T17:11:00.000-07:00

These days Finley loves everything: my sunglasses, Jarrett's shoes, her cousin's race cars, Livie's late night parties, Beebe's new "puh-pay", "DoRA", calling Big Daddy "Miiiike", belly-flopping on Jack, turning on water faucets, throwing dinner and begging for popsicles, swinging from the highchair, going stiff as a board when it's time to sit in the shopping cart, begging for treats in the dollar section at Target, running around the house in her hooded towel, coloring, moving to two-year-olds in Sunday School, giving hugs, showering rather than bathing, anything Chic-fil-A, books before bedtime (she actually sits still for them), sleep sacs and pacifiers (yep, still), Sprite at dinner out, brushing her teeth, Usher & Jason DeRulo, cruising in the Cozy Coupe, swimming with Bella, Charlie and Livie. . .and I'm sure there's more, but we'll save that for the next post :)

The newest babe to spoil!

2010-05-26T18:22:00.000-07:00

I'm so in love with Sonal and Russ's new bundle of joy! I had to share. Mira Rose Cochran--whatta doll!

Not my backdrop of choice

2010-03-22T18:44:00.001-07:00

So this isn't my backdrop of choice, a little too predictable, but it works. The other I picked out looked discombobulated. It had a much hipper name too, "Alice In Wonderland". Oh well, we'll take "Claire".
Finley got her first pair of shoes for spring today--check 'em out! Daddy J was so excited he didn't even take time to get the girl's socks off. And we definitely know spring has sprung because Jarrett's at softball practice. Let the games begin!

I'm trying

2010-03-21T19:52:00.000-07:00

Ok, this customizing my blog thing is way over my head. I consider myself good with computers, but not after this experience. Jeez. How in the world can I get my post to shift to the left and why aren't things "saving" when I "save" them. This is going to require lots more help that Whit anticipated. Bless her heart, she thought I could do it. It's good to know she believes in her big sis'. For now what you see is what you get, unfortunately. I'm going to work on it when I can and get help from Whit when she can (she is the mother of three now, may be a while).
So, what's been going on? Well, Finley is on the move 24-7. I am not giving you a line. Everyone at church and several folks around town have commented on how she never sits still. How could she? There's a whole new world out there. I love it. I've got a few pictures from her first day at the beach this year. She was not diggig the sand bewteen her toes. We'll work on it!
I would like to go in more detail, but tomorrow is Dr. Strickland's first day back in over a week and it's Monday. It's going to be craZ! I've got to get the latest deets on our wonderful politicians' new healthcare legislation too. It's got me worried.

Don't give up on me yet!

2010-03-07T17:12:00.000-08:00

I haven't been able to change much on the blog, actually I've changed nada, but I have been researching new templates! I think I need help from the little sis' and her man. None of the templates I've found are nearly as cute as "Where the Wild Things Are" or "Life In Sonal's Shoes". I need help from my peeps.

Things are settling down at our house (kind of) and I should have a few minutes to devote to "The Bridges' Chatter", finally. I've got lots to catch you guys up on. . . a trip to Rome, the Jay-Z concert, J's new bike and all of Finley's new tricks. She's started running sooner than I thought and loves the treadmill almost as much as me :)

Lots to do

2010-02-17T19:24:00.000-08:00

I just got through looking through Whit, Sonal and Kajal's blogs and realize I got lots to do. I've got to get The Bridges's Chatter in order! It's a mess. I need a new layout, colors, the whole nine yards. Our blog is very last season, maybe even season before last. I have been a slacker. In the next month (gotta give myself enough time due to upcoming travels) there will be lots of change on the chatter. Stay tuned.

In the mean time, here are a few Valentine's Day pictures.

The latest chic

2010-01-25T19:44:00.000-08:00

Emily Eloise Herndon arrived on Friday morning at 0751!! How do I know the exact time? I was in the OR! It was such a special time. I tried my best to be a fly on the wall. I didn't want to interfere with David and Whit's special family time. It was so cool though. I've seen lots of c/sections, but it's totally different when it's your baby sister. I'm proud of that hot momma! She did wonderfully. I was amazed by how "chill" she was as we wheeled her around the halls. Here are a few random pics of the latest "(1/2)Carter girl" added to the shopping, traveling and beach-going clique!

2010-01-21T18:29:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday Miss Bonnie!

Fin is a dog lover like you. She even wants to share a room with her pup!

Are you serious?

2010-01-21T18:11:00.000-08:00

Has it really been since November since I blogged?. . . um, 'tis the season :) I would like to think that I'm superwoman/supermom, but the truth is I am FAR from it. The holidays definitely got the best of me. Lesson learned: Plan way in advance. August is not too early to begin Christmas prep. I greatly apologize for my lack of Bridges's Chatter updates.

On with the latest. . . EMILY ELOISE arrives tomorrow!!! The Herndons, Bridges and Carters are ready, bellies full from a pregame meal at Pablos. Sam cried for tomatoes (his latest fave), Eli spouted funny stuff he has learned at school (from his friends of course) and Finley chowed on rice and salsa(after Daddy J panicked she wasn't eating enough). It was eventful. I still find it hard to believe that I'm Jarrett's calming factor.

Last, but certainly NOT LEAST, today is one of our most favorite people in the world's Birthday!!!!! Bonnie, our precious neighbor across the street that many of you have heard us rave about is celebrating her big day. We are so thankful for her. Happy Birthday Bonnie!!!

More to come on Bloggin' Tuesday

2009-11-30T20:50:00.000-08:00

I can't believe how long it's been since I've had the time to sit down and write. Not that I really have time to be typing now. I should probably be reading the Nurse Practitioner's Women's Health Guide that dad gave me. I've met yet another learning curve! This time it's learning the ropes at Drs. Strickland, Brock and Gowen's office. I LOVE it! I've been there for about two weeks and it has been wonderful. It requires a different set of nursing skills though. I'm trying very hard to learn Dr. Strickland's language. I don't know if I'll ever be able to work at his speed, but I'm working on that too. He is being kind to bear with me.

As far as the world of Finley LOTS has happened. She celebrated the Big One Year Birthday and was dedicated at church. It was a weekend packed with milestones. Thanks to Amanda and Oliver Twist Photography I have wonderful pictures to share. If you live in BWK or plan to visit you gotta make time to see my girl (olivertwistphotography.com).

I'll be in touch more tomorrow, but wanted to give a brief update before I hit the sack.

We survived!

2009-11-01T19:32:00.000-08:00

We survived Halloween, GA v. FL and finally got to open Birthday presents with Finley! It has been quite a weekend in the BWK. Finley has a new favorite food, well two--Aunt Wi's sugar cookies and yellow squash with cheese. I think they balance each other? We're working on transitioning Finley to big people food and a sippy cup. I am exhausted from washing Dr. Brown's bottles.

Here are a few pictures from this weekend. . . you know what next weekend holds!

She likes it!

2009-10-29T21:04:00.001-07:00

The DQ on SSI didn't know what they had coming when drove up today :) It was an eventful thirty minutes. I loved every moment. Sam and Finley both had "red" ice cream (that's what he calls strawberry). Eli had a big guy treat-- M&M Blizzard. He couldn't even spare a bite for his mom and Emily. He is a growing boy, jeez Aunt C! As usual Eli entertained Finley and Sam. He's such a good big brother & cousin. I love hearing him call Finley "Finley Girl". It's precious-- gotta get that on video. Whit and I attempted a group shot, but we've got movers and shakers for children. See below.

God is so good!

2009-10-28T17:43:00.000-07:00

I've done the facebook post. . . now I've got to get a little mushy. One year ago tonight Jarrett, mom, dad and I were anxiously waiting for "Baby B" to arrive. It was one of the most uncomfortable and longest nights of my life, but worth every minute. One year later I wouldn't trade it for a million. Our family continues to thank God for His blessings and grace.

Finley has caught up to "average" regarding height and weight. She grows more chatty by the day and loves books! She is my and Jarrett's heart.

Stay tuned for pictures from tomorrow's outing with Eli and Sam--ice cream in the village! It'll be Finley's first frozen treat. I hope she likes it as much as Papa D and me!

Happy Birthday Charlie!

2009-10-19T20:24:00.001-07:00

I should totally be in bed right now, but I had to post a Birthday Wish! Our NICU gal pal Charlie Young turns one-year-old tomorrow!!!! She is as adorable as ever. We celebrated her Birthday yesterday. Here are a few pictures. It was such a blessing to be a part of the festivities. Her family and friends are dear. She was stylin' in her hotpink tutu and beanie :) Happy Birthday Charlie! We love you!

A new schedule

2009-10-02T20:59:00.000-07:00

I should totally be in bed now, but the new schedule has my diurnal clock out of whack. I'm not sure if I've mentioned it, but I'm working nights in the maternity center, weekend nights. I love it. My preceptor, Questa Tait, is amazing. She has a gift for teaching. I'm so thankful God put her in my path. The night shift is a doozie for the Bridges (and Carter) household, but God is sustaining us.

Finley is doing all kinds of new things. I think that's why I get sad before heading out to work. She is interacting with us lots. Her favorite word, "Hey", sounds like it's coming from a grown man! It will crack you up. Randomly she comes out with "Hey", especially when she sees a cell phone.

So I'm thrilled that it's fall, but jealous that mom and dad are in Rome (so gorgeous this time of year). We don't get a great change of season/temp down in Brunswick. That's okay though. I'm hoping it stays warm enough for Eli and Sam to use the pool when the Rome Crew visits next month. Speaking of Eli and Sam, they keep us in stitches. They make Aunt C so proud. I feel like they're my own, but of course I can spoil them :) Tonight after they finished their milk. . . powdered doughnuts! It's so fun. Who knows what Aunt Wee will use to spoil Finley (she is a makeup guru--uh oh)!

Wow

2009-08-24T17:21:00.000-07:00

Wow. I can't believe I haven't posted since July 15th. I've been meaning to, but guess what? I started working again (after two years off). I have a new respect for working moms, especially single working moms. Me being back at the hospital has rocked the Bridges' world. Jarrett and I truly pass out on the sofa around 9:00 each night. If I don't go to sleep early, I pay for it the following morning. It's not easy getting up at 5:00 a.m. Tomorrow 5:00 a.m. will bring new excitement for me though. It's my first day on the Miriam & Hugh Nunally Maternity Center floor. The hospital asks that we please call the center by its full name because if we donated a million dollars we would want our name repeated as well (including every time we answer the phone). I'm trying to learn to get it out in one breath. Anyway, I don't have my own patients for quite some time. Tomorrow is strictly observation. I still have several weeks to complete in the transition program too. After that Mrs. Luff has designed a new education program for us. It's slated to last around seven months. Basically I feel like I'm in school again, but it's really wonderful. I'm getting priceless training. I'm thankful they aren't throwing me to the floor! I'll keep you posted on how things go (no more month long blog breaks).

What else has been happening around here? Humm. Traveling to spend time with Papa D & Juju, Emily & Butler's wedding, Lauren & Michael's wedding, Valdosta Friends Reunion, the NCLEX in Jacksonville, Livie's First Birthday and this weekend one last summer trip to Rome. Our calendar has been full since July 15th. Throw J's travels and me going back to work in the mix. Jeez. No wonder it's almost September. It makes me realize how important it is to savor every moment (especially the ones with my girl Fin).

It was a brief, but really fun trip to Rome this weekend. We got to spend time with the fam and celebrated Sam's 2nd Birthday. It was lots of fun. Finley had several firsts too--1st elevator ride, first ride in a grocery cart, first McDonald's French Fry!

I'm going to try and post as many pictures as I can. I hope you guys don't get bored!

Holla later.

Big Girls Do Chores

2009-07-15T20:18:00.000-07:00

And they like it! Jarrett and I discovered yesterday that Finley loves to be in the Baby Bjorn and help with chores. In the past we'd take turns playing with her or find a distraction, but now she's along for the ride. Her favorite work includes activities around mirrors, but she digs the yard too. She LOVES taking Fergie out (This is working to Ferg's advantage because in the past I hated stopping progress to take her out. I'm terrible). Basically Finley is like her mom and dad, a busy body. Thank goodness we've found a way to occupy baby girl.

How could I forget? My stent as a stay-at-home mom is coming to an end. I spent four hours at the hospital today for pre-employee processing. I was told it would take two hours. Poor mom was in limbo. Thank goodness she's so kind and understanding. The next hurdle is the nursing transition program. I've been told to have child care from 7a-7p for like two weeks. Wow.

Back from under the weather

2009-07-05T20:27:00.000-07:00

Finley Grace is finally getting back to herself. . .and then some. Her belly seems to be healed and her lungs seem to be extra-healed. She has learned to scream from the back of her throat. It's quite a feat for her. Friday and Saturday night were tough for Jarrett and me. She fought her sleep with the lovely new scream.

On the positive side she stayed in the nursery with Miss Dale for the first time this morning. It was wonderful for Jarrett and me. I think Finley enjoyed it too. She was able to spend more time with her best girl Livie!

Red, White & Reminiscent

2009-06-29T20:35:00.000-07:00

I was rocking Finley to sleep tonight and started thinking about The Fourth of July and festivities throughout the years that have made it special for me. My first thoughts were the times when Whit and I were little. Every summer, the week before The Fourth, we spent the entire week with Grandmother Carter. It was a week of prep for her big picnic. And when I use the word big, I mean BIG. I believe half of Floyd Hospital attended along with family and friends. It was nuts. There was homemade ice cream in almost every flavor you can imagine. Two funny memories: 1. The first time I heard Aunt Seery use language :) She got burned by a sparkler and let the s-word slip. 2. One time a neighbor ordered fertilizer to be spread the morning of the picnic. And when I say fertilizer, I mean the good, old-fashioned, home grown kind :) It was terrible and poor GMC panicked. We had fans running from extension cords into the backyard.

That week with Grandmother was always anticipated. Whit and I got to do pretty much whatever we wanted. We talked this past weekend about how funny it is--children in our family know they can get away with just about anything with GMC. Ask Eli! Sam and him were so excited Saturday morning(6/27/09). GMC gave them $20 and they headed to Target to buy whatever they wanted. It could have been a potting soil & seeds, she would have let them buy it. You can ask mom about that. One time I came home from Grandmother's house with a pair of yellow shoes? She definitely let us express ourselves! She (like Nannie & Papaw) let us eat whatever we wanted too. Oh man the junk we filled ourselves with during that week. Uncle Robert had a goodie basket that our little fingers couldn't stay away from--Cheeze Its, brownies, Little Debbies. And there were always the local joints we hit up--McDonald's, Shoney's Breakfast Bar.

At night we watched ABC Nightly News (Grandmother had a crush on Peter Jennings) and Entertainment Tonight. I think my obsession with television news started early. Grandmother didn't know what roots she was establishing. We talk "Hollywood" to this day!

There was always a time of sadness for me during the week though. I've always had a touch of a realism. I remember the nights I wasn't worn slap-out I would lay in bed, listen to the sounds of Wayside Road and sometimes cry. I was having so much fun and didn't want it to end. I never wanted my Grandmother to go away. I'm so thankful that Grandmother Carter, now also known as GMC, has been able to see her great-grandchildren. Had I only known then what I know now; I might not have had those fleeting moments of sadness. . . instead I should have been worried about what Finley may ask her GMC for or to do one day!

Happy Birthday Beebe!!

2009-06-24T19:48:00.000-07:00

It's Beebe's Birthday today and we want to send her lots of love! Here are pics of her and Finley over the past eight months. We're getting ready for a Birthday Lunch (Hungry Hannah's) on Albany Street with Whit, Eli and Sam!

Happy Father's Day (Valdosta Style)

2009-06-21T19:27:00.000-07:00

Once again everyone in my house is sound asleep but me. Jeez. What's a momma gotta do to get some Zs? Maybe I'll get a few more snoozes tomorrow a.m. It all depends on baby girl. The odds are in my favor that she'll sleep late in the morning. The Bridges have been moving full-speed ahead since Saturday. We made a trip to Valdosta that was wonderful! We got to spend time with the Keenes, the Mathews and lots of other good folks. Finley had a blast. She shared her nosey laugh with everyone. . .even through the night. Thank goodness Aunt Katie and Uncle Sim are sound sleepers.

Happy Birthday Aunt Gail!!!!!

2009-06-17T18:25:00.000-07:00

Today my and Finley's Aunt Gail is celebrating a Birthday! She's way too young and way too hot be a grandmother, although she's one of the best in the world. I'm sure she'll get big kisses from her lovebug. I wish the Brunswick Crew was in Rome to celebrate. Aunt Gail we'll all be dreaming of big, fat, covered-in-icing slice of Kroger Birthday Cake! LOVE YOU LOTS!

YAC & IIAG 2009

2009-06-15T18:19:00.000-07:00

Jarrett, Finley and I are recovering from another wonderful year at the insurance convention. It was such a great time. I hate that we only see most of those folks once a year. Thankfully Matt & Heather Dorsey are in Valdosta. We're planning a VSU game with them in the fall!

Finley still loves the pool. . . and the accessories that go with it! She had fun sporting her "Beebe Couture" bunny towel and swim cap. She had fun with all of her grandparents too. Mom, Dad, Miss Judy and Mr. Dave came to be known as Finley's Entourage. Most folks bring a mother-in-law or nanny with them. We were much more well staffed for the event!

It was also fun because the Turner & Associates's Crew has grown to include Kevin Diestel and his family. We had a full table at PLAE on Friday. If you're ever in Amelia check out PLAE--way delish! My new favorite dessert, flourless chocolate torte. It's so good. . .Robbie thought so too. He left his creme brule for Betsy to finish!

We're counting down to next year and the addition of two new babies (Asher & Elliot arrive in October :)).

Pics from the north

2009-06-07T20:12:00.000-07:00

We made a last minute trip to Rome over the weekend. Jarrett, Finley and me were in desperate need of time with the family. I'm not sure if we were even there 36 hours, but the drive was worth every moment. Eli, Sam and Finley kept us all entertained (unfortunately Cousin Lovett was at the beach). We celebrated Nannie & Papaw's wedding anniversary (I believe it's 62 years) and Aunt Gail's Birthday with our family's version of a home-cooked meal, Las Palmas!

Going to work with my baby's doctor!

2009-06-01T20:36:00.000-07:00

Well in a way at least. Southeast Georgia Health System has offered me a Nurse Tech II position in maternity! I am way, way excited and nervous too. I wasn't sure if I should start off in maternity since it's highly specialized, but I think it's where God is leading me. I hope I'm listening to Him correctly. So, I don't have a date to take my licensure exam, but I have a job!

More swim time

2009-05-31T21:17:00.000-07:00

Okay, everyone in the house is sleeping hard but me. We all napped for about two hours today,but I'm the only one with crazy hormones that keep me up at night when I sleep like that. I don't know what my deal is sometimes. I wanted to post a few pictures from the weekend before resolving to the sofa and Iron Chef America. We all went to Auntie Beth's house for her grandbaby's First Birthday on Saturday. It was so fun to watch mom and dad with the boys. Big Daddy was in the water, full-action mode. It took me back except this time dad was playing with a whole lot more action and splashing! The boys were angels. Eli has grown up so much this year. I love it when he shows me his pool tricks. Sam takes it all in. He's got some Myrtle in him! Finlely just love them both! She shakes and does her signature giggle when she sees them. Oh yeah, notice the picture where dad is "watching" Sam. We've been giving him a hard time for that one!

Dinner Time: Momma C vs Daddy J

2009-05-27T19:53:00.000-07:00

I'm hoping David will let me volunteer and help with a manners class at The Boys Club. . .here's my reference!

Swimmin' with the dads

2009-05-26T11:32:00.000-07:00

Aunt Wee knows how to party!

2009-05-23T19:49:00.000-07:00

We had the most awesome night celebrating Whit's Birthday. Everyone (except Eli who is living it up at Cousin's Camp) got their chow on at Bonefish. It was so delish and the cousins not campin' were angels. Sam colored and Finley took in the scenery that included a mid-air diaper change in the ladies' room! We also learned about David's new adventures at the Boys & Girls Club Teen Center. It's such a neat facility. God is at work. He is always at work, but this work is more apparent to my human eyes (I need billboards at times to get the picture :)). I thank God every day that family is close to share these special times.

More bloggin' ahead

2009-05-21T18:47:00.001-07:00

So I realized I need to be more productive with my time and blog rather than facebook. I have become addicted to facebook. I can't let myself give in to twitter. Luckily twitter has taken over Coastal Georgia like other parts of the country. As soon as it does I probably won't be able to resist. I don't know what the fascination is? Maybe it's a feeling of being connected to loved ones that are so far away. I've talked with my Cousin Laura more in the past two weeks than I have all year. It's terrible, but true. Our lives get so busy it's hard to pick up the phone every night or every other day, but there's rarely a day that goes by that we're not on the computer. Facebook is making it easy to reach out and touch someone. Love it!

Finley is teething. That's all I have to say. It's not as bad as it could be, but she's not comfortable. She's doing well with teething tablets. Today we got a new gadget at Target. Check out her pictures. I can't figure out if her teeth are bothering her in the evenings or if she's fighting to stay awake since Daddy J is home to play. I've gained ground since school has been out, but baby girl LOVES her dad.

Tomorrow Grace Welborn turns 13! I can't believe it. Wasn't it yesterday that she was a little flower girl in our wedding? It's nuts. I need to get pictures of her and the Welborn Crew for the blog. They are all growing up on me! Griffin completed a triathlon this month and Sam's baseball team is league champ. They're doing all kinds of wonderful things. I'm so proud! I hate not being there to see it firsthand. Christa keeps me updated though.

I better get set up to start studying for the NCLEX. It's been two weeks. . .ewww. Maybe tricky to get back into the swing of studying. Oh yeah--interviews at the hospital next Wed & Fri!

Finley Swims Riverside

2009-05-16T18:01:00.000-07:00

Jarrett and I were nervous, but we took on the pool today. Precious Robbie let the trial run take place at his house. The verdict: Finley LOVES the water!!!! It kind of makes me nervous now. No pools in our backyards. She was fearless. We headed down to Dr. Smith's house where she got to hang out with Miss Lauren and show-off her skills to Dr. Strickland. I'm sure he'll have her out on jet ski or tube as soon as we let him :) It was just a great day. The weather was great and everyone was so helpful in our new adventure. If we had remembered the bottle we made for the trip we could have stayed longer--still learning!

All done

2009-05-06T20:07:00.000-07:00

After two tortuous years of studying, clinical and being deprived of time with friends and family I'm done. My nursing school journey wasn't an "I" thing though. I don't like saying "I'm done". So many people were integral in the completion of my degree. I wouldn't be receiving my pin tomorrow night if it were not for their prayer and unrelenting support. I decided to make a list of everyones' contributions. Warning: It's long and in no particular order. I've been jotting notes down throughout the day trying to make sure I remember everyone. This post is subject to change as my mind catches up with my actions!

J-Rat: Like whoa. I totally uprooted any ideas he had about being married to me! During school he turned into our family chef, maid and probably breast feeder had it been possible! He is truly the love of my life, but this journey has been more than love. It's been about being with me in the trenches. He's been my cheerleader and he's kept me from drowning in self-pity. He has Nana's ability to tell you to get off your duff and do something about it without making you mad. It's a gift and it got me through. My favorite quote of his when I was complaining about a test, "If it was easy everyone would do it. "

Mom: During my first semester mom taught me to take it to the Lord. I had been turning to Him for help, but not turning it over to Him. I learned early on that I was going to have to give it all over to Him. The demands of nursing school were out of my control. She told me to get on my knees and that's what I did. Now things didn't dramatically become easy, but God has given me discernment in organizing my time (now if that can carry over to floor work I'll be set !).

Dad: Probably one of the biggest reasons I decided to go back to school. I've watched him enjoy his career as a nurse all my life. All I know to say is he's the "gold standard". I know y'all don't want me to get all mushy on ya!

I'm getting tired and have Fin all day tomorrow as I prep for pinning and dessert for family afterwards at our house. I better go to sleep or I'll be kicking myself! There's way more to come!

5/13/09
Nannie: She has reminded me to always listen to my patients. She has the best ears on the block. Nannie always sits back, relaxes and takes in all the family happenings.

Papaw: When you're on the clock your job is number one, but don't let it keep you from having fun with your co-workers. Papaw officially retired this past year after 27 years of service with the City of Rome. If his knees would let him, he would still be checking those bus stops. I want that kind of endurance. I want his early morning routine to become mine too. . .he used to wake up at 3:45 to get on his treadmill!

Aunt Gail: What a sweet spirit. When I'm tempted to be short with a patient I've got to remember my Aunt Gail's kind and compassionate heart. She was not able to complete nursing school so I've got to carry her spirit with me to work.

Whit & the crew: No matter what the shift brings, have fun doing it. See each day as a chance for adventure!

Amanda: Take time and heed God's wisdom. Pray for billboards and expect an answer. I have to remember that as I care for each patient I'm not alone. God is guiding my actions and will aid my critical thinking skills.

Sonal: Always look the part! Hence my $350 MBTs that I was told I could wear last summer, but his fall was told they didn't fit the school dress code. That one stripe of grey--jeez.

Sarah: Don't be afraid to take on a hefty project (patient), work like crazy and then take a good nap!

Katie & Sim Bridges: Savor the delish meals Jarrett prepares on work days.

Grandmother: Pamper your co-workers. It may be my day off, but I can run treats to the floor.

Uncle Robert: Stay dedicated. I can't short-cut the nursing practices I've been taught. I have to stick with it even if the day is long.

Seery: Scrubs are for the hospital only. On days off I have to break out my Mel&Mimi wardrobe!

Melanie & Mimi, Uncle Eddie: Never underestimate the love of family. Advocate for my patients and their families. Find ways for families to be involved in their loved one's care and remember that the family may need care too.

Mr. Dave & Ms. Judy: Enjoy time off. Hop in the car with Jarrett & Fin and head somewhere for fun!

Kris, Lauren & Beth: Let patients reminisce. I miss my Rome girls all the time. I have to remember there are people my patients miss too. Sometimes the best medicine is the laughter stories of loved ones brings.

And finally, my precious Finley: Expect the unexpected and know it's God's divine plan. I am His child with the awesome blessing of caring for His children. Sometimes patient's won't have a voice. I have to be their advocate.

Sassy Sixth Month Old

2009-04-29T16:47:00.000-07:00

Today is April 29th and that means Finley is six months old! It's hard to believe. I'm like all other moms now when I say, "Oh, I remember when she was that little." Finley is gaining weight by the day and LOVES sweet potatoes. We took her to the beach to celebrate--she picked out a 2.5mil ocean-front pad for us! We met a precious couple who thought they took a family shot, bless their hearts. It didn't take so we have solo pictures with our beach baby.

Weekend with Juju & Papa D

2009-04-25T21:42:00.000-07:00

I should be on final exam/ATI lockdown, but it's difficult. I have too much fun hanging out with Jarrett and Finley--and this weekend the Bridges were here--too much fun to get into! I had to get pictures posted before tomorrow--going into "the zone" as I tell Jarrett.

More of our girl

2009-04-22T19:44:00.000-07:00

Times are way crazy at Cypress Run Drive! Jarrett started softball season this week and I'm down to only two weeks of class (but three tests, that doesn't add up?).

Two new friends came into Fin's life this week too. Henry and Ruthie Akins were born Sunday morning. Now Eli, Sam and Finley have Akins to play with!

Sunday Pics from the House and the Beach

2009-04-19T16:00:00.000-07:00

Sleeping w/ Dad

2009-04-19T15:57:00.001-07:00

Moments like these are priceless. Finley is now 6 months old and life is amazing. She is weighing well above 13 lbs and interacting with us daily. She has a beautiful smile. I am so blessed as a dad and a husband. I love my two laides!!!
Daddy J

Our Favorite Golf Tournament

2009-04-10T18:35:00.001-07:00

My favorite golf tournament has to be by far The Masters. I actually went last year right after we found out we were having a child and purchased some Masters Gear. Well, today was the day that Finley showed her true colors-I think she might possibly be a golfer. Here's some pictures of us supporting Augusta!

Happy Easter!

Daddy J

First Egg Hunt

2009-04-05T15:40:00.000-07:00

We took Finley to the hospital's Easter Egg Hunt yesterday. It was great. She's not scurrying for eggs yet, but she definitely looked the part!

My Two Ladies

2009-03-30T18:41:00.000-07:00

Aren't they both beautiful!!!!!!! I am such a lucky guy. I don't know what I would do without my girls!!!!!

Daddy J

Don't have long

2009-03-28T20:07:00.000-07:00

It's been a doozie of a day. Finley has added rice cereal to her diet, we're spacing her meal times further apart and she DOES NOT dig Darien, GA. We made it all of thirty minutes at Blessing of the Fleet today. It was horrible. So, I don't have long to blog tonight. I have a bunch of clinical paper work to finish and a shock module. I'm not digging shock. It's frightening how the body can shut down. Any way, here a few new shots of our girl! And precious Eli! I need to get some pics of Baby Sam. He's outta the hospital and lovin' Eli's speed racer.

Can you make a countdown go faster?

2009-03-23T20:12:00.001-07:00

Only two more tests to go and they can't get here fast enough. The Bridges' Household is over being over nursing school. Jarrett and I don't want to wish away time with Finley, but if we could make the countdown to my nursing pinning faster we would. All of the reading, case studies, journals, care maps, clinicals, tests and med sheets are getting the best of us. It seems never-ending, but Hailey Bailey sends me random texts reminding of how many days are left. I think we're down to 43!

In the spare moments Jarrett and I have been able to snap a few pics of our girl. She's growing so fast. Her last RSV shot is tomorrow and she doesn't see Dr. Aljabi again until May. I think she's missing Aljabi. . . Sam and Eli have seen him quite frequently over the past few weeks (bless their hearts) and Jarrett and I saw him at the bridge run on Saturday. He's going to be proud of Miss Fin and her poundage when he does see her in May.

Daddy J loves waking Finley up in the morning. Here are a few pics. There's one of her in her first tennis shoes too (courtesy of Olivia!)!

Can't stand it

2009-03-15T20:56:00.000-07:00

I should totally be in bed right now, but I can't stand it! There are too many pictures to share. Tomorrow is Eli's 5th Birthday (can't believe it)and we all celebrated tonight. It was so much fun, the perfect to wrap spring break. Whit and David had the dining room table decked with "Cars" stuff. I was sooo tickled because Eli asked me to sit by him. I love that precious so much, Sam too. They are like my own. Here are a few pictures. I'm sure Whit will have more. . .stay tuned.

Oh yeah, how could I forget? Tomorrow the Bridges Family is on the true downhill slope of nursing school--only eight weeks to go!

My Gangstas

2009-03-03T19:04:00.000-08:00

School is kicking our tails

2009-02-26T20:58:00.000-08:00

It's been way busy at 140 Cypress Run. Jarrett and I are trying to keep our heads above water and make it through the last eight weeks of school. I never imagined cramming so much into so little time--glad I didn't sign up for med school. I have one more precepting shift and then it 's back to clinical. One more test until spring break too. We are sooo looking forward to the break. . .and our big trip to Rome. It will be Finley's first trip to North GA and on a plane to top that! Jarrett and I can't wait--mom too. I think mom might be most excited. Rome is "Home Sweet Rome" to her! We've kept her close to B-wick for a while now. A biggie on our trip--Finley's Four Month Birthday Party courtesy of Melanie and Mimi!!!!! I'll get details to you as soon as we get back.

It's Been A While

2009-02-08T05:40:00.001-08:00

So Courtney and I haven't updated in two weeks due to the fact that life has been busy. Here's what we have been up to. Courtney is now in her precepting phase of nursing school which involves 12 hour shifts on the weekend. Not only does she have to work at the hospital but she also is a full-time student and full-time mom. She has been amazing through this! Our family has been an awesome support system and Finley has really enjoyed hanging with her grandparents. We don't know what in the world we would do without them.
I have also been busy with my job and been traveling some during the week. On the weekends I have been keeping Finley with the help of my parents who have responded to their "call of duty." For the first time when my family is in town, we actually hang out and just relax, no schedules, no running around town, just plain relaxing.

Here's Finley's Updates:
1. She now watches movies and loves them
2. She weighs over 8lbs 5 oz and is allowed to leave the house.
3. She likes to shop at Target and our local Mall
4. She smiles and laughs.
5. She can poke her lip out when she is mad.
6. She has been to The Chapel
7. SHE SLEPT IN THE CRIB LAST NIGHT!!!!! This has been my proudest moment so far as a dad. I guess I will no longer need back surgery and I can finally get off of the couch and sleep in bed w/ Court.

Playing dress up

2009-01-21T19:32:00.000-08:00

School has truly started. It's been classwork only until today. Today we got our preceptor assignment. I'm bummed because I had hoped to work with my friend Haley Allen, but the powers that be didn't approve it. Haley is an excellent nurse--so passionate--she's one of the reasons why I'm in school. On a positive note all of my friends who have worked on Five Medical say my preceptor is fabulous. I'm getting pretty excited! Jarrett and I are hoping I get to start this weekend. It's going to be way interesting at 140 Cypress. Mr.Dave and Miss Judy will be here for the first twelve hour shift. Jarrett will have great help.
Finley has already started playing dress up. . . with her dad! Check out the pics from tonight's fashion show. You know she loves her animal prints :)

Saturday Night Fever

2009-01-17T18:00:00.001-08:00

Here are a few shots from our exciting night in!

The Coldest Day of Finley's Life

2009-01-16T18:14:00.000-08:00

It was a record breaker in Brunswick today! Way too cold to be out, kind of, at least on Coastal Georgia terms. Finley and I were up and about around 6:30 and ready to take on the day, but it was so cold we went back to sleep (no clinical today). She's turned into the sleeping buddy I've always looked for! No offense to Daddy J. He's just a go-getter and is out of bed way too early even when there's no job or chore the to-do list. I like to get my Zs. I think I get it from dad. We like to sleep until thirty minutes before the time clock starts the day. . .but God blessed us with spouses that know how to get our rear ends out of bed in the morning! I don't know if my mom knows what snooze is. I know Miss Judy doesn't. Seven-thirty is late for her. Wow. So our day started a little later. I think we're entitled though. We don't get snow days down here. We do get hurricane days, but those are spent boarding up and evacuating, not chillun' in front of the fire.
Now that I've justified a delay in studying I've got make up for a few missed hours. This weekend on Iron Nurse America--Battle Cardiology. I thought I could get the med-surg reading done this afternoon. Yeah right. It's all about reading "strips". Going to have to call on Big Daddy for help. Right now all those little EKG lines look mostly alike.

Getting it together

2009-01-14T13:55:00.000-08:00

I've been in school a week and it hasn't been so bad. It's challenging and we're still trying to figure out a way to optimize study time at night, but God's revealing His plan. I think our biggest challenge for the semester will be getting Finley to sleep in her crib. I've got to call Dr. Aljabi and see when it's safe to start the process. We've started putting her in the crib to get her used to the idea. She likes it for twenty to thirty minutes. She is lovin' her bouncy chair and the peanutshell. Thank goodness for Melanie Stilli's kind gift--LOVE the peanutshell!
I feel like there is so much more to blog about. I have a spare moment and my mind is blank. I guess the good stuff is crowded out by respiratory and cardiac module info.

Long Over Due!!!

2009-01-09T17:39:00.000-08:00

As you can tell the Bridges Family has been busy. We enjoyed holiday break and we are all back to the real world. Courtney started her final semester of nursing school this week and has a test Monday. Finley rhode w/ Daddy J to work a few mornings (to be dropped off at Beebe's). We've had three trips: Day One-lost passy at the end of the driveway and stayed fired up for the entire ride. Day Two and Day Three were great--she's getting the hang of morning drive time.

Finley has been growing. Here are some updated pics!

New Year's 2009

2009-01-01T19:41:00.000-08:00

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Times have really changed in our life over the past year and it has been truly amazing. Court and I couldn't imagined how awesome it is to now be parents after wanting it for so long. We continued our tradition with the Holts and rang in the new year with our new baby girls. Last year the Holts actually broke the news to us about being pregnant. Now they have a beautiful 5 mnth old daughter named Olivia. All of us can only imagine what our girls (Finley and Olivia) will be getting into the future...

After a fun night, we hung out at Whit and Dave's and enjoyed some classic Wii action. The boys are so much fun at this age and Sam is really coming into his own. Court and I feel so lucky to have the Herndon's here for Finley to grow up around.

2008 was an awesome year for the Bridges family. Court finished another 2 semesters of nursing school, Finley entered the world, and Daddy J is so thankful for the two wonderful ladies in his life.

Happy New Year to All!!!!!!!

Finley's Playlist

2008-12-31T00:20:00.000-08:00

Single Ladies--Beyonce
Miss Indrpendent--Ne-yo
Closer--Ne-yo
One Step at a Time--Jordan Sparks
No Air--Jordan Sparks w/ Chris Brown
Tattoo--Jordan Sparks
Just Dance--Lady Gaga
Dangerous--Kardinal Ofishall
Forever--Chris Brown

Today was. . .

2008-12-28T19:18:00.000-08:00

Today was an absolute blessing. I've been feeling quite overwhelmed the past two weeks. I thought school would get out and I would be able to get everything done. I could wrap presents, decorate the house, finish Finley's nursery, make a dent in thank you notes . . . I may have gotten two of those things half-way done. I've pretty much felt like a failure. Until today I haven't been able to figure out why I couldn't manage my life all of a sudden. Then Beebe came to me, with her tough but sweet spirit, and told me that I needed stop trying to be in control, to basically let go and let God. I knew I needed to do this, but felt like I was asking too much of family and friends. I have four more months of nursing school. Are they going to feel burned out or what? Mom, dad and Jarrett have reassured me this is what they're here for. I'm finally accepting their offer. It's just hard not to do it all my self, but doing it all my self is what the world expects not my Heavenly Father. I think I'm going to get the hang of it. It will be interesting to see what else God has to teach me. I just have to stay positive and be like Heidi Klum, an eternal optimist! I saw her E! THS this morning. She had tough times and kept pushing forward--gotta do the same. Sorry for the Hollywood analogy :) E! is my escape. Oh--and All My Children.
Here are some Christmas pictures. They're overdue!

Didn't work out . . .

2008-12-27T19:20:00.001-08:00

Ok, so The Twelve Days of Finley was a neat idea, but on day eight our true love gave to us: colick. It's been a challenge, but Dr. Aljabi and The Happiest Baby on the Block have been lifesavers, grandparents too. I think Jarrett and I have it somewhat figured out or at least we're learning how to handle our poor baby girl's cries. It's all about making her think she's still in the womb. And parents, be careful whose advice you take to heart. . .in the fourth trimester you don't have to let your baby cry. This is my advice to the world--HOLLA.
Jarrett and I working on new pictures. There have been lots over the past few days. They'll be up soon!
Oh yeah-- best Christmas treat ever--Olivia and Finley finally got to meet!

Day Six & Seven

2008-12-19T17:44:00.000-08:00

I'm not doing well with the every day thing. . . sorry 'bout that :)

Proud of my girl!

2008-12-18T16:26:00.000-08:00

Not the one you all are thinking of, but I am so proud of Finley. I'm so proud of my girl Sarah Robbins! Tomorrow is her last day at The Henry County Chamber of Commerce as Tourism Director (not sure if I have the title quite right, but she's all over promoting their tourism). For those of you who don't know, Henry County is the fast growing area in the state of Georgia. My girl has been in charge of some serious tourism. She took on the job about five years ago and has taken their tourism to the next level. I always love hearing about her projects and seeing her on the cover of magazines :) Tomorrow is her last day because she ties the knot with John Scott Husser on January 24th. Her new residence is my old one. . . downtown Rome, GA. I'm sure she'll make Rome her own too!
Sarah was the friend my mom prayed for when I moved to Athens. She has been such a blessing for so long now. I don't know what I'd do without her. Sarah lets me ventilate and keeps me up to date with the latest ATL news/trends. I just love her and can't wait to see what her (and JSH) future holds!

It all started four years ago

2008-12-17T19:53:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow is my and Jarrett's four year wedding annivesary. I can't believe it's been four years. It's been such an awesome trip so far. . .I can't wait for the next four. Who knows, maybe there will be four more bambinos! We didn't expect to have precious Finley at this point. You never know what God has in store. I could never imagined or dreamed someone as perfect and special as Jarrett is to me. And to think about all those nights I just knew I was destined for singlehood. God is so good.

Bathing the Baby Girl

2008-12-17T17:39:00.000-08:00

Finley experienced her first ever bath tonight and it was a success. We are finding that her hair can sort of resemble her daddy's. By the way, my nurse student wife, wouldn't let us bath for a while because we didn't want to disturb the acid mantle of her skin, whatever that is...

Day Five

2008-12-17T14:48:00.000-08:00

It was almost a sleepless night, but Finley settled in to sleep around 2a.m. After that she slept until 4:30!!! Yea! She is kind of sleeping through the night. We're hoping for our third night of five hours straight. Dr. Aljabi wonders if she has a touch of collic. Daddy J is battling the drugstore madness at the moment. We're getting drops of the tummy. I'm aching for him to get home because there is a package from Melanie and Mimi on the doorstep!

Day Four

2008-12-16T18:38:00.000-08:00

We're still struggling with a schedule... we've got the eating thing down--every three hours. It's the time in between that's not falling into place. Any ideas, other than Baby Wise--terrible experience with that philosophy yesterday.

The Synergist Shot is Approved!!!!

2008-12-16T10:25:00.000-08:00

We found out today that our insurance has approved six RSV vaccine shots for Finley!!!! Yes! Initially they were denied, but after review--we had to let them know that I work in healthcare (had an RSV encounter last week) and that in January Finley will be spending more time with her two cousins (she can't wait). God is so good!

Days Two & Three

2008-12-15T19:48:00.000-08:00

The Twelve Days of Finley

2008-12-14T18:46:00.000-08:00

Day One

5lbs and Running

2008-12-10T18:30:00.000-08:00

Finley visited Dr. Al Jabi today and had some GREAT NEWS! She now weighs 5lbs 4oz. Daddy J and BeBe made the trip as Moma C Ta had clinical at the hospital. Courtney is almost done w/ school for this semester and has one more day of clinical left. She has been vigilant in her studies and so deserves the time off. The family is excited about getting to spend quality time together. I am sure Moma C Ta will post new pics of the next couple of weeks are she and Finley has some quality "Gurl Time."

Real quick

2008-12-07T15:52:00.000-08:00

Finley is at the corrected age of one week old and she is truly acting like a term infant. The lungs are in full force! She slept about an hour last night, seriously. Jarrett didn't got to bed until 4 a.m. My final is Monday and he was precious to cover the morning shifts. We were both up at two trying to figure out why baby girl was so upset. The fam has several theories, but I think she wants back in the tummy! I've told her the food is better out here, just give it about six months. I hope she takes my advice and decides to sleep tonight. Poor Mom is staying with us so I doubley-hope she sleeps. I'll keep you posted.

Baby Got Back :)

2008-12-03T13:44:00.001-08:00

"Just Another Manic Monday"

2008-12-02T17:44:00.000-08:00

I love beltin' out this tune with Suzanne Vaga, but yesterday when I learned what a Manic Monday truly is. . . well, this song got dumped from the playlist. Let me explain.
The morning was going so well. I had pumped twice, Finley was eating and I felt ready for my test. Then I looked at the course calendar (the third revision). Mom could leave early today because class was out at four. . . because class started at 11:45.. .it was 12:45. I had missed the test!!!!! I didn't know if I would be allowed to make it up or what. If any of you are familiar with the nursing school instructors you know what I'm talking about. They are as hard core as any weight trainer at FLETC. With all of the arrangements they've made since Finley's birth I thought this would be the straw that broke the camel's back.
Thank goodness for dear Hailey Bailey. She calmed my nerves and sent me to Miss Liz (our first semester clinical instructor)who can turn almost any situation into a positive. To make a long story short, I take the test on Friday and they will take five points off of my composite test score. So much for that A or B I was hoping for. . . maybe I can still pull out a B. I'm not too worried though. I think I made an A in babymakin'! Just kidding.
Any way that was just the test. My entire household (that includes mom these days) is in the middle of makeup madness. I have three more days of clinical next week after the final. I should be doing eight hour shifts, but for some reason they're making me do twelve hour shifts. Thank goodness mom has lived with a nurse for over 35 years. She seems to understand the craziness. Jarrett just wants me to be through for a while. He says no more babies during school!
Thanks to dear friends at school I'm making it through. God has placed incredible nurses-to-be in my life. . .they know all about some therapeutic communication!

A Few Turkey Day Pictures!

2008-11-27T08:07:00.000-08:00

Today has been quite eventful. Finley has slept about an hour and a half since 4:30. We wanted to get a few pictures up for our precious family in Rome. We miss so much! Love you all lots!

It should be happening tomorrow

2008-11-25T20:20:00.001-08:00

It's so wild to think that about two months ago we talked with Dr. Strickland about having Finley, then Baby B, tomorrow. I'm so glad she's already here! Nursing school madness has escalated since Finley was born and I can't imagine giving birth during this end of the semester madness. We only have two more official days of class and our instructors are laying it on thick. This doesn't include group projects and vision screening. I'm thankful we have time at home this Thanksgiving instead of traveling. We have a test Monday--can you believe it? I'm still taking time out for Black Friday though! It just wouldn't be American and what kind of example would I be setting for Finley:)? JuJu and Beebe wouldn't allow it. . .and I can't even imagine what Sonal say? Speaking of, I have to get a picture up of her first pair of shoes. Sarah sent them. . .they're precious!
I think I've rambled, so sorry. I've been reading-up on the endocrine system--highly entertaining. I better finish for tomorrow's class.
By the way--I am bathing. I look really greasy in the picture below, but I just got through walking:) Precious Daddy J didn't think I was getting enough face time. He deserves all the face time right now though. . .my school has forced him into the role of Mr. Mom. He's all about changing diapers. I've told him he's so bowel fixated that he should think about nursing! Just kidding.

Updated Pics of Finley

2008-11-25T18:57:00.000-08:00

The Bridges Family has been hiding out. It's time to get some updated pics of Finley out there. She is doing great (weighing 4lbs 8oz) and is weighing in tomorrow at Dr. Al Jabi's. We have had a blast hanging out with her at the house. She will probably not be able to go out until 2009, so this special time has allowed Court and I to really bond w/ Finley. She is truly amazing and so is my Baby's Mama!!!!! Court is such a great Moma C Ta and you can tell Finley adores her!

Daddy J

Weekend Full of Action

2008-11-17T18:41:00.000-08:00

It was a weekend full of action at the Bridges Household. First of all, I (daddy J) kept Finley all by myself Friday. I was in a cycle during the day...wake Finley up, feed her, change her diaper, put her back down, and process started again. We had some quality time watching Sports Center and the Foodnetwork. The day flew by and Court was home before we knew it. It was great to have Court home, but I wish the day had passed a little slower.

Saturday, JuJu and Papa D came for a visit. It was so awesome to see my parents holding and spending time with Finley. I can't believe they're grandparents--oh yeah, that means I'm a parent. We had a great day hanging out and watching football. The girls (minus Finley) were able to get a dose of shopping/errands in. Did I mention I'm in trouble when Finley and Court can go on shopping trips? Does anyone need any insurance????

Finley continues to grow and Court is such a wonderful mom. She handles Finley in a way that makes me so proud! Proud she is my wife, proud she is a mother, and proud she is my best friend.

Next up: Weighing in at Dr. Aljabi's on Wednesday. We want 5lbs!!!!!!!!

Gotta leave my baby girl?

2008-11-12T16:08:00.000-08:00

I can't believe it's here already. I knew I had to finish clinicals for the semester and had even planned on going back last week, but tonight as I think about leaving Finley for a whole eight hours it makes my heart hurt. I know she's going to be more than taken care of, but still. . .
So, tomorrow a.m. I'm back on the floor. I have PCCU clinicals with Mrs. Denton. I hope my brain will be rested enough. I'm hoping for an elderly patient too--maybe they won't mind if I move a little slower. I've got to get my head around med-surg too. It's been a while since I've worked with really sick folks. PEDS and OB have been pretty moderate as far as sickness, not a lot of infectious stuff.
I'm going to add new pictures later too. Beebe snapped a few this afternoon. She wanted to show off her growing grandbaby. Finley is up to 4lb 4oz and she has grown an inch. Her friend Charlie isn't far behind. Charlie is up to 4lb and she's grown 1/4 of an inch. Our girls are truckin' along and will meet the rest of the pack soon!

Getting in a Routine

2008-11-11T17:22:00.001-08:00

The past week has been so much fun having Finley home. The reality that Court and I parents still hasn't set-in yet. Time is flying by. We have been home for over a week. Finley is 2 wks old tomorrow. We're working on a routine. Court takes care of the 2:30am & 8:30am shifts and I work the 11:30pm & 5:30am shifts.

We (parents) are adjusting to her (Finley) sleeping habits which can be described as pretty inconsistent at this point. We're all about "late night" at 140 Cypress Run. I have discovered a few very interesting TV shows on during 2am to 4am. I was half asleep last night and found myself cramming a brownine down my throat during as I fed Finley. Guess I am on the three hour plan too. I can't wait to see the pay-off for Finley, not so much for her daddy. We have an "official" weigh-in tomorrow morning. We're hoping to bust 4lbs 5 oz. It will be Finley's third trip out of the house. We'll keep you posted on her progress....

We have had numerous visitors too. Dr. Strickland, who delivered Finley, (in the pic above)came by tonight. Finley was so excited. Court had to get a picture with the person who touched Finley first. Doc is also the one who took such good care of Court too. We are truly blessed w/ great friends through our Church.

We've had visitors bring lots of awesome food too(food that Court doesn't always have time to prepare). . . that's a whole new blog though. I'll get back to you on the lasagna, soups, homemade bread, brownies, cookies . . .

Just so y'all know I contributed to this blog too :) That'swhy it may sound girly. Court

Buddy Charlie

2008-11-07T18:38:00.000-08:00

Finley's friend Charlie has moved out of the isolet and is up to 3lb 10oz!!! We're so excited!!!!! Keep those prayers coming for her too. Let's keep these girls growing like weeds!

Packing on the pounds!

2008-11-07T18:27:00.000-08:00

We visited Dr. Aljabi for the second time today and at weight Finley was 4lbs!!! She's moving on up. We're hoping for five pounds by this Friday. I think she can do it. She's been guzzling milk every three hours, unless she's asleep. Shut-eye feedings take a bit longer.
Let's see. . .what else has been going on. Daddy J is loving being a dad. He can turn any hip hop song into a ballad about Finley. It's a riot! Finley loves it. She'll probably grow up to be an MC :)
Mom has been SUCH an incredible help too. If it weren't for her our house would look like a hurricane hit. She's got the bottle cleaning, laundry and so many other things organized and systematized--wow.
I'm a little worn at the moment. My writing could get boring. . .I'll write more later. I've got to write about Hispanic childbearing practices too. School is still happening! My professors are going to present a plan for finishing clinical on Monday. I'm leaving it to the Lord. I think I'll be able to graduate with my girls. Speaking of, they have all been angels. Hailey Bailey has printed and printed for me and been a chauffeur. Finely's birth has revealed to Jarrett and me how truly blessed we are to have such kind, loyal friends.
Okay, so I really better go. Check out the new pics!

Getting Ready For 1st Doc Visit

2008-11-04T18:48:00.001-08:00

Finley has her first doctor appointment tomorrow with Dr. Al Jabi. We are looking forward to weighing her and seeing if she has gained any oz's. Courtney and BeBe worked extremely hard today getting our house in order. It was awesome to come home from work and have the house in order. We are also enjoying putting clothes on Finley. Her wardrobe is growing daily. Tonight, our neighbors, Bonnie and Coop dropped by a gift of some premie clothes that were great. Our neighbors will soon see a little girl running through our yard...can't wait.

I have attached some pictures of our trip home and some shots of Finley sporting some new outfits. Court is shopping for her some pink high heels. Man... I am in trouble.

Finley's Home

2008-11-04T05:33:00.001-08:00

Finley and family were released yesterday at 5pm. Court and I are so excited to be able to move out of the hospital and sleep in our own bed. Finley is doing great and slept well last night. She has a doctors appt. on Wednesday and Friday and I think this will be the norm for the next month.

The big breakthrough yesterday was that she was finally able to put clothes on. Court dressed her up for her trip into the world. I'm sure she'll post some pictures later today. I am so proud of my two ladies. They are amazing!!!!!!

Finley's Moved In Our Room

2008-11-01T19:57:00.000-07:00

Another day of accomplishments as she has been in our room since 9am. I had to travel to Nana's funeral which was in Lakeland today, so Court was by herself. I guess I haven't really dealt w/ Nana's passing until today with all that went on this past week. My Grandmother had a huge impact in my life and was so excited about the birth of Finley. She passed away 12 minutes after Court and I checked into the hospital on Tuesday of last week. It is as if she wanted to make sure we started our new journey before she left this world. One amazing spirit leaves this world for heaven and a new beginning started here on earth.

Court is doing so well as a mother. I have thoroughly enjoyed watching her take care of Finley and love on her. Finley is chilling right by our side and we had to remove her GA gear after the bad game today. Let's just say Finley slept during most of the game, she seemed to be bored with the way UGA played. She wasn't the only one.

We are getting some rest tonight as we expect a lot of visitors tomorrow. Some pics of the day are above.

Daddy J

Halloween at the Hospital

2008-10-31T18:49:00.000-07:00

Halloween has been experienced at the hospital. First of all Finley's friend, Charlie gave her a pumpkin hat stitched by her grandma. Second, we had some surprise trick or treaters-Eli and Sam.

Finley has a a good day so far and has passed her tests today with flying colors. She was able to take milk from Court and also from the bottle. Praise God! This will allow her to start putting on some LB'S which will help us get her home. Dr. Al Jabi said that Finley will actually decide on when we can go home. If she continues to grow stronger and eat well, we may be home by Monday.

Halloween Treats

2008-10-31T07:56:00.000-07:00

Finley had her first taste of food, "treats", today! She took 11cc of colostrum. It looked like some rich stuff. . .I guess it was all of my frozen yogurt or maybe grilled chicken? That has been momma C's diet for a while now. Whatever it was she devoured it. The first 5cc were gone in seconds! We're going back for round two at 1:30.

This is more than I imagined

2008-10-30T21:55:00.000-07:00

I never imagined feeling so much love and joy in my heart. The past two days have been amazing for me. I don't mean that in a selfish way. I say it out of thanksgiving. I have been overwhelmed by the love God has shown me and my family through others. It all began Wednesday morning in the OR as we preppred for my C-Section. ALL of the staff in the OR that morning was so kind. I was so afraid, but God comforted me through them. I didn't expect to have that much fear. Thankfully Dr. Strickland, Heather Mitchell, Corbitt, Vickie and several others were there to be used as angels to help me through. And I hope I'm not blowing his cover, Dr. Strickland is a big joker, but don't let that fool ya! I truly believe that God sent him to give me peace. I'll never forget him helping me through the spinal and bringing me warm blankets.
After all the prep I look over and there is my "Precious J-Rat". He looked so "McDreamy"! The blue scrubs, face mask and cap set off those handsome blue eyes. We were all there ready for Baby B.
Now two days have passed and I still feel overwhelmed. I never imagined that I could love a child so much or love my husband more. They are both such precious gifts.

Holding It Together

2008-10-30T18:24:00.001-07:00

Tonight was a time when Court and I could both hold Finley. She has been off the oxygen treatments since 5pm and holding her own. It is amazing to be holding her thinking she is just two days old. I can't believe her sweet face, small hands, and little feet.

Our next goal will be for her to feed without the IV. She has been on an IV since she entered the world and we should start to feed her sometime around lunch. The main task will be if she can suck, swallow, and breathe at the same time. Updated Pics above.

Daddy J

Finley's Progress Notes

2008-10-30T12:35:00.000-07:00

Finley had another milestone last night as she had her first BM. Court was still confined to a wheel chair so I proceeded to change the dirty diaper. It was a fun experience as I probably spread more stuff than over her bottom than she wanted.

Also, she is progressing and getting stronger each day. She has started a pacifier today and doing well. She should be off her oxygen treatments today at 4pm. Below are some updated pics

OH YEAH! Moma C Ta (Court) is doing awesome too. She has been able to spend some quality time with Finley and she already has that special touch that mother's have. Finley just calms down and is so comforted when Court touches her. I am so proud of Court and feel so lucky w/ these two beautiful women. Totally Blessed!!!

Finley's Getting Her Oxygen On!!!!!

2008-10-29T12:36:00.000-07:00

Finley is doing great in the nursery. She is getting some oxygen and has already made 3 friends. It seems the nursery has 4 lovely ladies that are all premies. Finley's first friend in this world is Charlie (born last Monday at 2.5 lbs). I keep waiting on them to start the movie of Sex and The City and conduct some quality girl talk. We'll keep you posted and have some more pics later. Oh Yeah, Finley has a full head of Black curly hair and a solid tan.

Until Later
Daddy J

Finley Grace Bridges

2008-10-29T07:33:00.000-07:00

Finley arrived this morning at 7:51am and weighed 3lbs 11oz and was 17 inches long. She is doing amazing and is in the nursery until tonight. Court was absolutely awesome through this whole process. Her strength is incredible!!! She is recovering in her room and doing great after the C Section.

We want to thank everyone who has been praying for us. God is so good and He has blessed us so much. Here are some pictures

We've Changed Plans!!!

2008-10-29T03:19:00.000-07:00

Change of plans, We are now having a C-Section in about an hour which will be at 7:30am. Dr. Strickland decided this would be a better move as Court's contractions weren't progressing. I'll update everyone later.

Daddy J

Through the Night

2008-10-29T02:47:00.001-07:00

Court has made it through the night and we expect the arrival of Baby B sometime between 10am and 1pm. She was able to get a little sleep and some really awesome quality time with her mother. BeBe was on the monitor watch througout most of the night. We are so excited about this time. I'll keep you posted on the happenings here in the hospital.
Daddy J

Things I've become obsessed with. . .

2008-10-25T22:06:00.000-07:00

Strawberry preserves
McDonald's, "ice cream cone in a cup"
French fries, especially if they're on J's plate
Sonic Diet Cokes "light ice"
Saltines, unsalted
Grilled turkey & cheese sandwhiches
Hungry Hannah's grill chic (I ask J to take me at least once a week)

Race training slightly delayed

2008-10-25T21:51:00.000-07:00

Jarrett and I had a bit of a scare on Monday at our regular Dr. Strickland visit. We were expecting the usual plus ultrasound pictures. It was hard to sleep Sunday night. We were anxious to see if Baby B would give us a glimpse of his or her face!
Well, Baby B gave us a peek of that sweet face, but wasn't as excited about the morning's events as mom and dad. His/Her heartbeat was not reactive (not accelerating with movement). And the nurses thought the physical measurements were small. After what seemed like LOTS of tense moments and jogging doc's memory we realized that my beta blocker was probably the source of the problem (It's a med I take for mitral valve prolapse that slows my heart. I take a pretty significant dose and needed to continue in pregnancy). Long story short, I cut the b-blocker in half and Baby B is much more excited to be in my uterus these days! I wish he/she would move a little more. I'm giving him/her a few more weeks before road race training starts! Dad made me feel much better tonight. He says Baby B is going to come out sporting a sweatband and "Nike Airs".

So proud

2008-10-22T20:29:00.000-07:00

Jarrett has totally embraced being a dad. I'm so proud of him. I think he's made it through Duvall's parental development stages faster than me. He's getting the nursery organized. Tonight he started putting together the Angel Monitor. I was stuck at the dining room table studying gestational complications--can you imagine?
Most folks could tell he is ready to be Daddy J this past weekend.
Check out Eli and him workin' the Brunswick stew pot!

This weekend in BWK

2008-10-17T07:29:00.000-07:00

I should be studying, so this is brief, but Jarrett is way too sweet to have gotten on the "chatter" last night. I'm not that fond of the pic. . .what's up with those legs? And I just look really fat, not pregnant. Maybe I should have specified that with the photographer. You just don't think when the paps are following you! J/K! We're getting ready for Brunswick Stewbilee '09! It all starts tonight with KC & The Sunshine Band. Jarrett is a bouncer tonight at the VIP tent--lookout. .. and he's a stew judge tomorrow. Whatta man. The rest of us are cookin' stew and hoping to place again in Peoples' Choice. We got robbed last year. The Chapel's booth theme is Sunday Morning Fever. I'll be sure to post pictures. We've got crazy costumes planned. Whit and Beth Lane took it to the next level--afro wigs and tuxedo T-Shirts, blinking glasses and mirror ball necklaces. By the way, that baby in that box over there is looking kind of big. . . ewww. . . maybe I will do the epidural thing.

Virgin Voyage

2008-10-16T18:37:00.000-07:00

This blog is officially split with the other half of the Bridges crew. I have been holding out, saving my new found knowledge, and now I'm ready to "drop it" on the blog world. Yeah right. I'm still in the process of computing how amazing or scary it will be to have a little Bridges running around the house. Oh yeah, Baby B is probably going to carry Daddy J's hyperactivity--apparrent by the wearing out of Mama-C-ta's belly on a daily basis of belly aerobics!

Oh yeah, Court was in the Georgia Times Union today getting her study on. Welcome to my world--a usual activity in our house. Her pic is at the top! She is so AMAZING!

Title Town Bound

2008-10-09T19:38:00.000-07:00

Jarrett and I are so excited! I hope we can sleep tonight. Tomorrow we head to Valdosta, AKA ESPN's "Title Town", to celebrate the anticipation of our new addition. Some of our precious girlfriends are throwing a shower Saturday morning at Covington's and then Jarrett's parents are having ALL the family over for a cookout that night (and to cheer on the Dawgs who will hopefully have their act together this weekend). It will be a packed weekend. It's not quite as packed as we'd like it to be though. Unfortunately we won't make it in time for THE Valdosta High-Lowndes football game. I've heard it's like GA-FL. Maybe next year we can take little man/woman, in a Valdosta uniform of course!
I'm especially excited because mom, dad and Eli get to come. Poor Baby Sam has been in the hospital with pneumonia. Whit and Dave are staying behind to nurse him back to health and hold down the fort on Albany Street! They've got some crazy animals to tend to :)
I'm excited too because tomorrow is my last day of PEDs clinical! Not that I don't like PEDS. Debbie Walker has been an awesome teacher, but it's way hard to assess active baby bodies. Their continuous movement causes me to worry that I'm going to miss something. It's a skill I might like to perfect. . . we'll see how PCCU goes at the end of the semester. I'm not sure where I'll land come May. Okay, I'm putting the cart way before the horse. I better go iron my uni.

The Perfect Date

2008-10-03T19:03:00.000-07:00

The Bridges had our first dinner out with Olivia Holt tonight! It was such a treat. We weren't sure if it would happen and we definitely put her energy to the test, but she made it! She was the perfect date! We're so thankful for that sweet, little new addition. We're so thankful for her mom and dad too. Jarrod and Amanda will never know what they mean to Jarrett and me. They put up with our craziness and carry us through challenges. As we spent time with them tonight I couldn't help but wish time away. I can't wait for Baby B to arrive and meet his or her family!

Retirement. . . really?

2008-10-02T18:27:00.000-07:00

I was shocked today. . . I got a phone call from mom. . .my Papaw's last day at The Rome City Transit Department is tomorrow! You have got to be kidding me? I couldn't believe what I was hearing. For those of you who don't know my Papaw, he put the "busy" in busy body. He retired from driving a city/school bus several years ago, but just couldn't stay away from work. He stayed on with the transit department as the "shelter man", as I like call it. When I lived in Rome it was such a treat to see Papaw on my way to work. He'd be checking the bus stops in his little white truck! What a way to start the day. . .he'd be just as excited to see me (I think :)). So, I'm thrilled for Papaw. It's time for him to enjoy some unstructured time (I can't tell you how long he's been getting up at 3:30 in the a.m. to be a work).
Here's to my homeboy's new life of chillun'! Love you Papaw--Corkie

It's an "F"

2008-09-18T17:39:00.001-07:00

Oh yeah. . .almost forgot. . . Jarrett and I have decided on baby names. It's crazy, but both the boy and girl name begin with an "F". Everyone knows we love the name Fisher for a little man, but our gal's name is a surprise! Can't wait to share!

Done

2008-09-18T17:39:00.000-07:00

I can't believe Savannah OB clinical is over, done. It went by so fast. I'm less than two weeks from midterm. That is pretty unreal to think about. It still feels like we've got a long way to go though. I mean Baby B will be here when the semester is finished. Isn't that sooo far away? It's actually not. Scarey! I gotta get crackin' on the nursery. I've put it off until after our first test--this Monday. Thank goodness Jarrett is bearing with me. If was in charge of the nursery decor it would have been done in August. He's that efficient and such a good time manager. He knows how to take measurements too. Part of the delay is due to my poor measuring skills. . . the blinds are two inches too big for the windows :) oops!
I've got to find a way to link Sonal and Whit's blogs to mine. They are wonderful and you all would so enjoy them. I'll get it figured out one day!